Manipulation is no way to make a woman fall in love with you; if the affair would be, it would definitely be. Men often make the mistake of thinking they could make a woman fall in love with them by turning on charm 101 or activating the generous attribute they possess.
Love should be allowed to run its normal course; many people make the mistake of thinking they could force things to happen by intensifying their actions when it comes to the opposite sex. Life should not be like that; when things are allowed to flow naturally and unhindered, the results are always better than when they are manipulated.
Desperation often make many men take the wrong measures when it comes to women as many of them feel they do not want to miss out on being with those particular women. This is usually the case with men who are of marriageable ages and are under pressure to do the right thing.
At this stage of their lives, they feel like the door is starting to close in on them and they need to settle down as soon as possible. Men like these often make mistakes when dealing with women and allow their emotions to overrule in cases where they ought to be rational.
Here are some of the dangerous mistakes men often make when it comes to women:
#1. Being too nice. A woman that would like you would like you irrespective of the fact that you act nicely around her. You do not have to bring yourself down to a level where you will become ridiculed eventually because you are trying to prove a point to her. Love can never be forced; the earlier you understand this, the better for you and for the lady. The risk involved in this is that, you may become a potential maga or money machine once your desperation has been noticed.
#2. Trying to buy her over. Love is not money and money can never be used to buy love. If you waste your resources trying to buy a woman over, she would only be with you for as long as the money lasts. You would be disappointed to know that she would walk the very minute you are done squandering. However, if she is a woman who values her integrity above all, she may call your bluff and move on. At this stage, the wealth you have tried displaying around her has been disgraced.
#3. Giving her power over you. Some men give themselves over to women when they claim to be madly in love with them. This is a very dangerous move as it is bound to make you lose your position in the woman’s life. A man should be the head of the house; when you give a woman too much authority over you, she can do all she likes with you. At the long run, she would treat you like trash because you placed yourself on the floor for her to walk over.
#4. When you place beauty over character. Many men make the mistake of picking their partners by using physical attribute. They use this as the major criteria and give more importance to the women’s looks than to the character they exhibit. Hey, deeper values should be used in assessing your missing ribs. Men who make this grace mistake end up losing the women because they move on to the next bidder as soon as the men misbehave. Also, the union may not last because the men may lose interest as soon as the beauty fades.
#5. When words and blows are used. Another terrible mistake men make about women is when they try to gain the women’s respect at all cost. We need not tell you that respect is earned; if you act in a deserving way, then it is yours. Many men think they would gain the respect of the women in their lives by dealing with them with blows or words that hurt. Women who have suffered one form of abuse or the other tend to feel disconnected after a while. Beating a woman would only make you lose the respect and love she has for you.
#6. When they substitute money for affection. This is a grave mistake committed by most of the influential men in the society. They are hardly around and think giving the women enough money would hold them down till they return. In truth, women love money and would welcome the idea of having money to spend at all times. The men should however not be surprised to know that the money is being spent on other broke guys who are more than willing to be with them and attend to their sεxυal needs.
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