For the Smart men, believe us when we tell you, it is no rocket science to keep your girl emotionally happy. Use your brain tool well to gather cues from what your girl wants from you.
There will be times when she would be very demanding or short-tempered, but then there might be days when she would shower all her love and attention on you.
So, here is a plan outlined for you so that she knows you are there with her at every step, literally.
1. Heart-to-heart conversations: There will be times when she will drop hints on the ‘need to talk’. You have to keep your eyes open and break the ice by initiating conversation. Leave behind the four walls and go out to grab a cup of coffee or go for a morning/evening walk and speak to her.
Find out about her day, talk to her about things that make her happy, take her to places where she feels at peace. All these things will make her open her heart out to you. Remember, communication is the most important part of any couple’s relationship.
2. Domestic support: Share the responsibilities of running the household. Whether your partner is a working professional or a homemaker, she still needs your involvement at home.
In fact, your involvement must increase manifolds if you have kids. Co-parenting will be comforting because she will not be the only one running around kids all the time. Your involvement at home will comfort her and will keep her emotionally happy.
3. Make love, not s*x: Well, physical intimacy is not limited to just one goal! Snuggle up to her, pour in your emotions when you are with her, indulge in some foreplay, and put some thought into playing some fun bedroom games.
This will help you cut down the monotony that might be crawling into your bedroom act. And, do not doze off after making love. According to a study in s*xual behaviour at Albright College, Pennsylvania, post-coital cuddle tops a woman’s list of to-do because at that moment she tends to become more emotional.
4. Travel together: Make the most of the times you can take off from work and family, and spend time with each other. Do not starve each other of attention.
There can be no better way to shower your love and attention on her than while vacationing together. Surprise her with a weekend getaway (if you don’t have much time in hand) or plan a week-long vacation together. Travel the roads of your relationship together.
5. Downplay ogling: If you are out with her make sure all your attention is on her. If there is a pretty woman who crosses your line of vision, it is best not to ogle. Why on earth would you spoil the evening for a glimpse of a stranger.
Try to put yourself in her shoes; how would you react if she was the one staring at some other man? Ouch! Did we hear your heart sink at this very thought? Let us keep things simple, folks. You have got a beautiful woman by your side, treasure her.
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